We are to become the community of grace and love that God has purposed as his body of Christ. He has given us rich examples in his word and pointed instruction to be the means of healing, encouragement, sharpening, and forgiveness to our brothers. As we live out these commands in ever-increasing devotion, we will glorify God and the unbelieving world will be drawn to his mighty Spirit who is alive in our relationships and community.
- Forgive one another…………….Colossians 3:13
- Spur one another on to love and good deeds…………. Hebrews 10:24
- Offer hospitality to one another………………………….I Peter 4:9
- Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ……..Ephesians 5:21
- Agree with one another that there be no divisions among you…I Corinthians 1:10
- Teach one another…Colossians 3:16, Romans 15:14
- Admonish one another……Colossians 3:16
- Bear one another’s burdens…Galatians 6:2
- Confess your sins to one another…..James 5:16
- Love one another….(the world will know we are his disciples) John 13:34-35, (with brotherly affection) Romans 12:10, 13:8, (the one who loves is born of God and knows God) I John 4:7
- Honor one another above yourselves….Romans 12:10
- Rejoice with one another…Romans 12:15
- Weep with one another….Romans 12:15
- Bear with one another in patience…Ephesians 4:2
- Serve one another humbly in love…..Galatians 5:13
- Encourage one another daily, build each other up…Hebrews 3:13, I Thessalonians 5:11
- Live in harmony with one another……Romans 12:16
- Stop passing judgment on one another….Romans 14:13
- Accept one another, just as Christ has accepted you…Romans 15:7
- Sharpen one another as iron sharpens iron…Proverbs 27:17
It is important to remember these commands are expected of us beyond our immediate family to extend to our intentional community-building efforts in small groups and individuals the Lord has called us to reach. The goal is quality and quantity to some respect. Some of these commands may be fearful or difficult for you: confession of sin, submission, weeping with others, admonishing a brother, or forgiveness. Review each command (look them up) prayerfully.
Consider them slowly one each day. Ask yourself, how am I fulfilling this command in my life? Is there a fear of rejection that is a block to my obedience, an unwillingness to forgive, an indifference towards others in me to be overcome? Is my pride keeping me from receiving from others? Is my need to be right more important than my need to love and serve others? Am I compassionate towards others in the way Jesus intends for me?









